Today, I want to focus on the term out of your league. How many of you believe that this is a thing?
Women nowadays are more likely to shoot their shots at men which I feel is a good thing, however the times that I see them shooting their shot, it seems to be with a guy who's in better shape, has more sex appeal, is doing much better financially, is younger, and/or with less baggage. It could be a number of things to be honest, but this is usually the only time I see a woman step outside of her comfort zone. Men are more likely to play the field and test the waters with women of all social classes because men are more likely to see each individual woman for the purpose she serves. When a woman wants a life partner, she's less likely to get sidetracked by something temporary like a man would.
Does this mean that women do not accept offers from men who are not in a better position than they are? No, of course not. And attraction isn't the only thing that determines your dating pool, but it's the first thing that you see. Style, sex appeal, and scent play a huge role in the beginning stages of getting someone's attention.
Lastly, men and women handle rejection differently. Men who are normally the pursuers won't let failure deter them from trying again, meanwhile a woman who is not used to stepping outside of her comfort zone and approaching a man might become discouraged if she is rejected. The irony is that she may be setting herself up to be rejected if she's approaching men who she knows might not find her attractive or more of a burden than a partner.
Food for thought.
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