Moment Of Truth

I've always considered myself as a helper, a giver. Even if it doesn't always translate well because I'm honest and blunt. In order for my attitude to adjust, I needed a kick in the ass from someone who I knew cared. And I knew he cared because he didn't sugar-coat the truth, I needed that. I became a better person and from that point forward, that's the approach I took with others.

I'm happy to surround myself with people who are honest even if it sucks to hear at times. I'd rather that than to be fed something false. I can't grow or develop that way.

Life began to become better when I started to become more accountable for my current state. I stopped looking for a handout and for the world to accept me, and I started going after the things that I wanted. And even though I'm not where I want to be just yet, I now understand the relationship between hard work, sacrifice, and success.

Personal progress has become a mission of mine and I hope to help others, not just with words or encouragement, but through my own actions and results.

The truth isn't always pretty, but it's necessary.

God bless.

Hoe Facts: A double standard or a difference of the sexes

Let's have an intelligent discussion. Agree or disagree:

Women are always asking why they are considered hoes for being as easy as men.

Well first and foremost, this is incorrect. A man can be a hoe, the inconsistencies stem from whether it's looked at as a good or bad thing. The term hoe doesn't carry a negative stigma for men within the male community because having sex for a man is a challenge. It's not as easy for us to find a woman to have sex with unless we are extremely attractive, have money, or status. Also, men are usually the hunters in the situation while women sit back and analyze who's hunting, but again the rules change unless the man has at least one of those three things I listed.

The average woman on the internet whether she looks good or not can post a somewhat revealing photo and get takers at the snap of a finger. So for women, since it's easy to have sex or find sexual partners, she has the expectation to withhold what is valuable to her. If a woman is saying yes to everybody, she's looked at as easy because it doesn't take effort. There is a reason why women can successfully sell pussy but most men cannot sell dick. Pussy holds more value and if you're giving it away easily, you are easy.

And if you need more clarification, just think, men aren't going around shaming each other for sleeping around, however women use this as a shaming tactic within their own communities, against each other.

Thoughts?

The Lonely Barber - What We Can Learn from Him

A lot of women I've come across state that they are not willing to date a man that's entertaining another/multiple women. The issue is, most go by this from jump.

Imagine walking into a barbershop on a Friday. Every chair is taken except for one. The barber looks at you and says, "you trying to get cut? I gotchu". A man's logic in this situation would wonder why there's no one in his chair on a Friday. There's gotta be a reason. By the logic of a lot of the women I've encountered, it would be no issue, they feel lucky. Up until they get home and see the chaos confusion on their(son's) head. I've given the 'lonely barber' a chance before and it was never a long term thing. I needed to get cut, his chair was open, I had no intention on returning. Til' this day, I've never gotten cut by the lonely barber and had a good experience.

I say all of this to say,

If you seek a man that's of value, you have to expect he might have options before you. You also have to expect that he isn't just going to simply cut off all of his options from jump. It's up to you to stand out in order for him to see you as his only option. Personally, when I meet a woman that has a lot going for herself, I already know her inbox is full and she hasn't paid for dinner in months.

Ijs. Give me your thoughts though.